You Are Greater Than You Think

Success: A Measure of Thought, Not Circumstance

Success is not measured by a person's height, weight, education, or family background, but by the size of their thoughts. The scope of our thoughts determines the scale of our achievements. Most importantly, we must value ourselves, overcome the greatest weakness of mankind—self-deprecation—and never sell ourselves short. You are greater than you think, so you should expand your thinking to your fullest potential and never underestimate yourself.

For thousands of years, many philosophers have advised us to know ourselves. However, most people interpret this as merely knowing the negative side of themselves. Most self-assessments include too many shortcomings, mistakes, and incompetence. While it is good to recognize your shortcomings and use them as a basis for improvement, focusing solely on the negative will lead to chaos and a sense of worthlessness.

For those who long for others' respect, the reality is harsh: others will perceive them as they perceive themselves. We are treated based on how we think of ourselves. Those who believe they are inferior, no matter their actual abilities, will indeed appear inferior because the mind regulates and controls various actions.

If a person feels inferior to others, they will display actions that confirm this inferiority, a feeling that cannot be hidden or concealed. Conversely, those who believe they have the capability to take on heavy responsibilities will become important individuals. To be seen as important, you must first believe that you are important, and truly feel this way before others will follow suit.

No one can escape the principle of reasoning: how you think determines how you act, and how you act determines how others perceive you. Gaining respect from others is straightforward. To be respected by others, you must first believe that you are worthy of respect. The more you respect yourself, the more others will respect you.

A person's self-esteem is the core of their personality. 

What kind of person you think you are will shape the person you become. Do not demean yourself. Instead, focus on your strengths. Ask yourself, "What are my strengths?" When analyzing your strengths, be honest and thorough. Recognize that you are better than you think.

In conclusion, remember the wisdom of the Oracle of Delphi: "Know thyself." Understanding and valuing your own strengths and abilities is crucial for self-confidence and growth. It enables you to help others cultivate the same skill, fostering genuine self-confidence and mutual respect.